Wednesday, June 21, 2023
Monday, June 19, 2023
Reflections upon leaving Taiwan
Some reflections on Taiwan written from my yoga mat (aka 'my personal item') fully unfurled in the middle of the gate: I’m wearing the same outfit as when my parents sent me off from the Indianapolis Airport. It feels like nothing has happened since then, but also that I’m an entirely different person. Moving abroad is something everyone should do at least once. It teaches you what you value about a community, what you value of your material possessions, what you value in friends.
I didn’t realize how homogeneously academic my circles were until I came here and met teachers, billionaires, make up artists, yoga teachers, dancers, ping pong coaches, painters, chefs, unemployed travelers, people with foot fetishes, etc. I feel like I can get along with any sort of person, after I’ve met so many new ones over the past two years. Some transient, some very meaningful, like my acro community. They surprised me with matching customized shirts during our last jam and made a circle to all base me without me touching the ground. I was really touched.
Taiwan is an extremely special place, not only in my heart but also as a model of a successful transition from a military state to a vibrant democracy, over the 80s and 90s becoming so safe it now feels utopian.
In my last few weeks in Taiwan, when I thought I was done adding people to my life, I befriended a Taiwanese guy (he came up to me on the street in Wanhua) who is a basketball agent. He specializes in bringing Taiwanese American college players, who could never dream of making pro in the US, to Taiwan where they’ll become MVPs. As a result, he’s an expert in Taiwanese immigration policy and uses KMT historical records from when the party was still in mainland China. He can spot Chinese heritage by the chunkiness in a player’s calves—Taiwanese people have often praised me for my slim calves (actually they’re quite muscular, thank you very much), another beauty standard based on the colonizer. “Imports” or foreign players, i.e. Dwight Howard, are otherwise tightly controlled in the two Taiwanese professional leagues because they have such an influence on the play. Only two from each team are allowed on the court in the first three quarters, and only one in the last quarter. My new friend got us VIP passes for a game which only when I got to the stadium (和平籃球場 right across from my dorm building) did I notice that it was THE FINALS. Jeremy Lin’s team had already been eliminated, but I got to see his little brother play, a contender for MVP.
In my last few days in Taiwan, my friend who is a semi-professional table tennis player took me to the ping pong dungeon, where I got free lessons all night. Ping pong is so dominated by Asians, that my friend learned Chinese as an adolescent to better communicate with his coaches and as he was traveling to Asia for competitions so frequently.
My friend also happens to be opening a chicken & biscuits restaurant in Taipei |
My last day in Taiwan, I wanted 刮痧, an anti-inflammatory scraping technique of Traditional Chinese Medicine. My friend and I ended up at a stall inside a traditional market that had one massage table and a curtain. My friend got too scared, but I had a great scrape. First was a warmup of vigorous massage. Then the masseuse used a glass jar suction-cupped to my skin to rub along my back. He used oil and a bilobed wooden disc to scrape my neck. Finally, he cracked all the bones in my spine. It didn’t hurt as much as I was expecting; he said I have good pain tolerance and that men are more scared of the pain. The redness supposedly indicates that your muscles needed this detoxifying anti-fatiguing process, but I think it indicates you’re an extremely pale person.
I had a last lunch of 小籠包 soup dumplings and with T and Juliet (she brought me a matcha mochi doughnut as a going away present). After a last dinner at Din Tai Fung with April, Ryanna, and Charlie, my friends accompanied me to the airport. I’m excited to be moving on to the next stage in my life. I have a lot that I’m looking forward to.
Thursday, June 8, 2023
MS Graduation
My mom and I both graduated with our Masters degrees within one week of one another. While my family could not attend, my roommate’s mom was visiting from the United States, and some non-student friends joined me for an international students party, making the day feel very special.
Monday, May 15, 2023
Taiwanese Baseball Game
With one month left before leaving Taiwan, I organized some of my friends to attend a Dragons baseball game at Tianmu Stadium. It felt full circle since right before leaving Baltimore, I’d gone to my first Orioles game with all my local friends at Camden Yards. Baseball in Taiwan is a legacy of the Japanese colonialism period. In the past, teams had been disbanded due to game-fixing by gangs, but now there’s 6 major league teams around the island that all play each other. The biggest difference between MLB and the Taiwanese league is that the fans dance and sing the whole time. Starting from the first inning, fans were on their feet dancing along with the renowned cheerleaders of Taiwanese baseball. Even while the home team is up, the stadium is blasting the batter’s walk-up song, and everyone is singing that batter’s specific chant and dancing their specific dance. There were fewer breaks between innings so the game overall went a lot faster. The stadium allowed you to bring your own food and drink, so rather than eating overpriced hotdogs we were eating 滷味 (night market stewed veggies) and guava with plum powder.
"The Hot Zones" are the sections right in front of the cheerleaders on either side, infamous for being full of men taking photos of them |
Also, I recently went outdoor climbing for the first time (besides via ferrata in Kentucky). This time, it was in 龍洞 Longdong right by the ocean. After bouldering indoors frequently over the past year, it was exhilarating to climb on real rock with birds flying around me and waves crashing below me.
Finally, I visited the Water Treatment Museum, which is a popular wedding photo destination but otherwise a bit dry. They do have a children’s water park that opens later in the summer.
Sunday, April 9, 2023
Early Springtime Activities
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Solo hike up 茶壺山 Teapot Mtn |
Almond tofu pudding with black sesame sauce afterwards in 九份老街 Shifen Old Street (always overpacked with tourists and drizzly weather) |
Attending an exclusive tea tasting party...my favorite part was the unlimited homemade vegan ice cream |
Saturday, March 25, 2023
Seoul
Biking along the Han River |
This past week I was able to make a quick trip to Seoul to visit my college suitemate who lives there. It was such a meaningful visit as she was a generous and dedicated hostess. I was really impressed by the food. Otherwise, I’d say the biggest difference from daily life in Taipei is the colder weather and the size.
Seoul's metro map makes Taipei's look like child's play
Training from Incheon Airport to my friend's nice 2-bedroom in Hyehwa (an artsy central neighborhood) |
Climbing an amazing peak at Bukhansan National Park just north of the city |
Hip area of Hongdae |
Changgyeonggung Palace |
The king who invented the systematic alphabet for Korean |
Myeongdong area, reminded me of Ximen in Taipei |
Gimbap for breakfast |
Bulgogi |
Pouch ice cream milkshake, similar convenience store culture as Japan and Taiwan |
Dakgalbi |
Gwangjang Market |